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In Islamic teachings, adultery refers to any sexual relations outside the bounds of marriage, encompassing both extramarital affairs and premarital relations. The Quran, Hadith (sayings and actions of the Prophet Muhammad), and Islamic jurisprudence guide how adultery is viewed, its consequences, and the measures taken to prevent it.

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These days, adultery or having sexual relationships without a marriage contract is becoming more and more normal to people of different faiths and beliefs. This is against all Abrahamic religions that strictly forbid adultery. However, those who commit adultery may bring many logical reasons to justify their act. Most people who commit adultery may simply think that this is the natural way of satisfying their biological needs, while not considering themselves as adulterers with a negative meaning.

Many unmarried men and women believe that experiencing sexual intercourse with their girlfriend/boyfriend is very important for them to decide if they would like to marry that person and live the rest of their lives with her/him.

From a moral standpoint, Islam regards adultery as a grave sin and a violation of the sacred bond of marriage. The Quran, Islam's holy book, unequivocally condemns adultery, stating, "And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse. Indeed, it is ever an immorality and is evil as a way" (Quran 17:32). This verse highlights the proactive nature of Islam in preventing immoral behavior by prohibiting not only the act itself but also any actions leading to it.

Islamic teachings emphasize the importance of chastity, fidelity, and self-restraint in personal conduct. Adultery is seen as a betrayal of trust, a breach of marital vows, and a destructive force that undermines the sanctity of the family unit. By upholding the sanctity of marriage, Islam seeks to preserve the stability and harmony of families and communities.

Islam also emphasizes the concept of repentance (Tawbah) and redemption. Sincere remorse, coupled with a commitment to reform one's ways, can lead to forgiveness and spiritual purification. The Quran assures believers that Allah is compassionate and merciful, ever willing to accept repentance from those who turn to Him in sincerity.

Islam advocates for preventive measures to safeguard against adultery, including promoting modesty, chastity, and marital fidelity. Additionally, Islam encourages strong family ties, open communication, and mutual respect between spouses to nurture healthy relationships. Moreover, Islamic teachings emphasize the importance of community support and intervention to address underlying issues that may contribute to adultery, such as poverty, lack of education, and social inequalities.

So, if the opposite sexes are not allowed to enjoy being together, what is the whole point of them being created in two different sexes and having attraction for each other?

Allah has put this attraction and desire toward the opposite sex for people to make families and reproduce and find peace and calmness beside their spouses:

“And of His signs is that He created for you mates from your selves that you may take comfort in them, and He ordained affection and mercy between you...” (30:21)

Having a family and being loyal to it helps society to be a safer place in which people can perform their duties and missions in life without being distracted by vain thoughts and concerns. Therefore, Allah (SWT) emphasizes getting married and helping others to get married. 

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