Quran asks spouses to share desires and promote mutual understanding

Story by  Eman Sakina | Posted by  Aasha Khosa • 1 Months ago
A representational couple (Artists dancing in Srinagar on Republic Day) Basit Zargar
A representational couple (Artists dancing in Srinagar on Republic Day) Basit Zargar


Eman Sakina

Islam, as a comprehensive and all-encompassing way of life, addresses various aspects of human existence, including sexuality. The teachings on sexuality in Islam are primarily derived from the Quran, the holy book of Islam, and the Hadith, the sayings and actions of Prophet Muhammad. 

It is important to note that interpretations of Islamic teachings may vary, and there may be different perspectives within the Muslim community.

Sacred Perspective on Sexuality:

In Islam, sexuality is viewed as a natural and essential part of human life. The Quran acknowledges the physical and emotional aspects of human beings and recognizes the need for companionship and intimacy. The Quran emphasizes that sexual relations are allowed within the confines of marriage, and it views the marital relationship as a source of tranquility and mutual support.

Quranic Verse (30:21): "And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect."

Marriage as the Foundation:

Islam encourages marriage as the foundation for a healthy and fulfilling sexual relationship. Sexual relations outside the bounds of marriage are prohibited. Marriage in Islam is considered a sacred contract between a man and a woman, and both partners are expected to take care of each other's rights and responsibilities.

Prophet Muhammad said: "O young people! Whoever among you can marry should marry..." (Sahih al-Bukhari)

Modesty and Privacy:

Islam places a strong emphasis on modesty in dress and behavior. Both men and women are encouraged to dress modestly to guard their chastity. Additionally, Islam values privacy, and intimate matters are generally considered private between spouses. The Quran instructs believers to lower their gaze and protect their private parts.

Quranic Verse (24:30-31): "Tell the believing men to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts. That is purer for them. Indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what they do. And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts..."

Consent and Mutual Respect:

Islam emphasizes the importance of mutual consent and respect between spouses in intimate matters. Both partners are encouraged to fulfill each other's desires within the bounds of Islamic principles. The Prophet emphasized the importance of kindness and consideration in intimate relationships.

Prophet Muhammad said: "The best among you is the one who is best to his wife." (Sahih al-Bukhari)

Prohibition of Extramarital and Homosexual Relations:

Islam strictly prohibits extramarital and premarital relations, considering them sinful. Homosexual acts are also prohibited in Islamic teachings. The Quran and Hadith provide clear guidelines regarding the boundaries of permissible sexual relations.

Quranic Verse (17:32): "And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse. Indeed, it is ever an immorality and is evil as a way.

Purity and Hygiene:

Islam places importance on cleanliness and hygiene in all aspects of life, including sexual relations. Before engaging in acts of worship, believers are required to perform ablution (wuzu). Maintaining cleanliness is encouraged for both physical and spiritual well-being.

Education and Communication:

Islam encourages communication between spouses and emphasizes the importance of understanding each other's needs and desires. Open communication within the bounds of respect is essential for a healthy marital relationship.

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In conclusion, Islam provides a comprehensive framework for understanding and practicing sexuality within the bounds of its ethical and moral principles.