Madhuri Dixit on finding real love: ‘Two people meeting without filters’

Story by  ATV | Posted by  Ashhar Alam | Date 08-12-2025
Madhuri Dixit with her husband Dr Shriram Nene
Madhuri Dixit with her husband Dr Shriram Nene

 

New Delhi

Madhuri Dixit recently reflected on her love story with her husband, Dr. Shriram Nene, sharing how their first meeting felt refreshingly real far from the world of stardom and expectations. The actor revealed that with him, she was seen simply as herself, not the iconic celebrity millions knew.

“He didn’t have any preconceived ideas about who I was supposed to be,” Madhuri recalled. “People often form opinions after watching my films, but with him, there was no filter of fame. It was just two people talking and discovering each other. It felt wonderful.”

Dr. Nene, a cardiothoracic surgeon, spent his early years in London and the United States. Despite his Maharashtrian roots, he wasn’t familiar with Hindi cinema when they met. He did, however, speak Marathi while growing up, thanks to his grandparents, who didn’t know English. Over time, he picked up Hindi as well.

Contrary to the popular belief that Madhuri is the more outgoing one, she revealed a different dynamic. “He is extremely friendly and can connect with anyone instantly. I’m the quieter, more reserved one. I call him my goodwill ambassador,” she smiled.

The couple lived in Los Angeles and later Denver, leading a life far removed from glamour, before choosing to return to India to be closer to family a shift both Dr. Nene and their children embraced wholeheartedly.

Love that feels like home

Psychotherapist and life coach Delnna Rrajesh notes that what makes Madhuri’s story special is not celebrity magic but human authenticity.

“In relationships, the deepest bond forms when both people feel safe to be their true selves,” she explains. “That emotional alignment is what sustains love.”

According to experts, being seen without assumptions creates:

Ease in being yourself, no need to perform or impress.

Honest connection, two people meeting as equals, not personas.

Longevity, a bond rooted in character rather than image.

Madhuri and Dr. Nene also complement each other temperamentally, his outgoing nature balancing her calm presence—showing that differences can strengthen relationships rather than strain them.

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Relationship lessons from their journey

Stay curious about each other, don’t let assumptions write the story.

Lead with honesty, authenticity early on prevents cracks later.

Notice how you feel with them, the right person brings out your truest self.

Build friendship first, comfort and laughter are powerful foundations.

Let differences be strengths, each personality can broaden the other’s world.