New Delhi

Some victories are far greater than medals. Indian para shot-putter Sharmila Dhankar's triumph is one such story.

When she won gold at the Commonwealth Games in Glasgow, becoming India's first para-athletics gold medallist at the event, her achievement symbolised much more than sporting excellence. It was a powerful message of resilience for countless people trapped in abusive relationships, poverty, and despair.

Today, at 40, Sharmila stands as an inspiration for anyone determined to reclaim their life against overwhelming odds.

According to Khelo India, Sharmila was born into a poor farming family in Chitrauli village in Haryana on August 15, 1986. Her mother was blind, and her father was a farmer. At the age of two, she contracted polio, which permanently impaired her left leg.

Sharmila Dhankar scripts history! ✨

She becomes the first Indian para-athlete to win a Commonwealth Games gold medal. 🥇🇮🇳

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Life dealt her another cruel blow when she was married at just 19. Trapped in an abusive relationship, she endured years of violence.

She has spoken about facing violence over dowry demands and being targeted for having two daughters instead of sons. The abuse pushed her to a breaking point, and she has admitted that during those years she even thought about ending her life.

One horrific night, she was beaten from 11 p.m. until 3 a.m. before being thrown out of her home with her two young daughters, Anju, now 15, and Lakshmi, now 13.

She never returned.

Instead, Sharmila chose to rebuild her life. At the age of 34, she turned to para-athletics, determined to create a better future for herself and her daughters. Her family even sold their house to support her dream.

Abusive intimate partner violence against women is a pervasive human rights and public health concern affecting more than one in three women in India and globally.

Data from India's National Family Health Survey (NFHS) suggest a modest decline in marital violence over the past decade or so; with 37 per cent of ever-married women reporting a history of physical or sexual violence from husbands in 2005-2006 (NFHS-3), to 31 per cent of ever married women reporting victimization in 2014-2015 (NFHS-4).

THE HISTORIC GOLDEN THROW BY SHARMILA DHANKAR IN SHOT PUT F57 🥺🤯

SHE IS COMMONWEALTH CHAMPION! 🥇

- Created History by becoming first Indian Para Athletics to win Gold at CWG!

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A turning point came when Ajit Singh encouraged her to take up para-sports. Under the guidance of coaches Tek Chand and Devendra, she progressed rapidly and, in 2021, won gold in her very first Para National Championships.

She also set a new national record in the F57 category with a throw of 7.40 metres. The F57 classification includes athletes with lower-limb impairments or reduced muscle power.

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From surviving abuse to standing atop the Commonwealth podium, Sharmila Dhankar's journey is a reminder that courage, perseverance, and self-belief can transform even the harshest circumstances into extraordinary triumphs.

#WATCH | Chandigarh | Haryana CM Nayab Singh Saini says, "First of all, I would like to congratulate and extend best wishes to Haryana's para-athlete Sharmila Dhankar who won gold medal in women's shot put (in Commonwealth Games) and brought laurels to the state as well as the… pic.twitter.com/C6hi6PCXEZ

— ANI (@ANI) July 28, 2026